My husband is addicted — how do I protect myself and my children?
A clear answer from the Restart team — reviewed November 2026.
Your safety and your children's come first. Find support for yourself, set clear boundaries, and don't carry responsibility for his addiction or cover up its consequences. If there's violence or threats, get help immediately from the relevant authorities.
- You didn't cause the addiction and can't cure it alone
- Quiet Homes for parents and spouses
- Safety always comes first
Burnout and codependency
Many wives live with worry, covering up and denial until exhausted. Recovery begins when the wife cares for herself and stops rescuing him from consequences.
How do I encourage treatment?
Calmly and with facts, at a sober moment, with a treatment option ready — the CRAFT approach makes acceptance more likely.
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Learn more →General educational content from the Restart team — not a substitute for a medical assessment. In an emergency, call emergency services immediately. · Last reviewed: November 2026
Medically reviewed byDr. Huthayfa BarhamMedical Director · Addiction psychiatristFAQ
My husband is addicted — how do I protect myself and my children?
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